With the news of the death of Jody Powell, Press Secretary to President Carter, comes a flood of memories of my days in Vienna, GA. In the early seventies when the only Gray Matter I had was the brain, I went to Vienna, GA to serve the Baptist Church there. I say Baptist Church because that is the way we referenced the church. With seminary behind me, a wife and 2 children with me, we made the move with little understanding about small town life or those things that would challenge us.
I soon learned that politics, locally and nationally were at the core of life in this small town. Carter was soon elected to the Presidency. We got aquainted with national life by surprise. The media looked for ways to reveal the secrets of the south because of the rise of the Southern President Jimmy Carter. I soon got a aquainted with Mr. Grady Williamson who was the retired banker living in the nursing home in Byromville, GA. I was amused that each time I visited with him he was wearing a tie, a continuation of the expectations as a small town banker. Mr. Grady was the grandfather of Jody Powell. I soon became fast friends with June Powell, Jody’s mom, because she was grateful for my visits to her father. I participated in his funeral service soon after I got to Vienna, but not before I got aquainted with him. Jody’s father Joe got sick with cancer, and at his death I participated in his service as well. With so much grief so soon, and my interest in the process of grief, June and I shared in a couple of grief conferences. June, a retired teacher and matriarch of her family, lives now in Americus. Recently she lost her closest sibling, Claire Williamson. It’s breath taking that June lives with so much grief, doing the unnatural by burying your child.
The flood of memories come because of a different Gray that matters. The gray hair that adorns my head reveals that I’ve had my share of life experience, and Gray Matters. I’ve just put a birthday card in the mail for a 95 year old friend.
I warmly remember the days of campaigning and election of Jimmy Carter. My wife and I with our children were walking around Americus, GA the night that Carter accepted the nomination as President. We saw Jody and Nan Powell that we had seen through some tough times, briefly. Nan was friendly and nice to us, and wanted us to see Jody, who was very busy with the national press. She got Jody’s attention, and called him over. She turned to him, and asked, “you do remember the Robinson’s don’t you?” The Robinson’s were the former pastoral family in Vienna. I’ve often reflected on that occasion to remind myself of my importance to other people. And it has been an anchor to the importance of those nearest and dearest to me, my family. Perhaps they will remember my name, if not my name as least my presence.
Recently a church member died that requested no service. My wife upon hearing that said, “that’s it.” She’s gone and that’s it. All of us need a way to process the important presence of another person in our life. So, this is my way of sharing the grief of the Powell Family that I’ve known and loved through the years.





